Trust is a word we use when we feel we can confide in the ones we think are our friends. You have to be very careful who you tell stuff to because everyone does not have your best interest at heart. You have the “I got your back friend”. You know the one that claims to have your back and on speed dial with another with the conversation you just gave them. You have your “sell out friend”. They will promise you all day long I will not say a thing but cashed in their promissory note as soon as the door closes. Then you have your “I love you girl we go way back friend” but standing with their fingers crossed behind their backs. Let’s not forget about your dreams. KEEP THEM TO YOURSELF! Everyone is not for you and everyone is not against you but you cannot trust everyone. I have experienced and know people that have passionately spoken about something dear to their hearts to only find out the best was not yet to come. I am a firm believer that’s what’s for me is for me but when someone snatches because you gently handed it over to them you have no other choice but to own up to the outcome. Now Facebook and Twitter is an outlet to network, make a difference, and make some business deals, seal connections, make new friends, and support one another. ALL of the how ever many you have are not your FRIENDS. Some maintain a stance just because you are a conversation piece, Some are inspired by you and others want to make the first post when you don’t live up to what they think you are supposed to be. Trust God and know that anything that is worth saying should be told to Him first. He can and will reveal who to consult in. Pray and ask Him to direct your path and divide the sea between the “oh no’s” and the “yes you cans”. Despite the many people that have proved time and time again they cannot be trusted. I am grateful that I able to still remain standing after a knock down. A good friend told me today, “Friends are not friends anymore. You cannot trust anybody too fast” Something to think about. Who are you trusting?